So what is the definition of friends?

If you google, it gives you this:
1. A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
2. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.

No, that is not the true meaning of friendship.
Friends or friendship is probably more to that.

To me, a true friend stands by you no matter what, listens to whatever you have to say no matter what it is, how important it is. They will never judge you, put you down, care what other people thinks about you. Most importantly? They will stick up for you when you are being put down and will never stab you behind your back. In summary, they trust and understand you for what you are, who you are.

Imagine how difficult it is to be friends with people who
1) Back stab you in front and behind of you
2) Are obsessive with their boyfriend and do not want any of her other friends to be associated with him
3) Is always neutral when you are being put down by others
4) Only side with her other friend because in her eyes, that other girl is always right
5) Of all things worst, do not understand you.

Seriously? If its me, I would have broken down long ago. Isn't friends suppose to be there giving you support when you need them? They are like clutches when you broke your legs or a hand that pulls you up when you lose your footing and falls into a freaking drain. Good friend makes everything seems easier.

But bad friends that ditches you can only make you stronger, because now, you learn how to bear with all the pain and continue walking down that path of life with your own means. Because now, you learn how to remove yourself from the plight by using your own ways to leave that drain. And because now, you know who they really are.

Ditch the bad ones, find the good ones. When you know that you have found a true friend, hold on to him or her and never let go.

I give my condolences to those who thinks that they have already found their true friends when in fact they are not. You think she is a true friend because you idolised her.
Also, boyfriend is never your true friend, stop thinking that they can do both job by being your boyfriend and a best friend. When they leave you, it will be too late to realise you now have neither a boyfriend nor a best friend.
Stop being so obsessive and start to give a damn to your friends too.
For some, stop trying to break others friendship because you will never find a place to fit and karma will follow you, everywhere you go.

No, I am not talking about myself, I have awesome friends! :*